Talk: 19th-Century Domestic Advice Manuals

Advice manuals – the self-help books of the 19th century – provide a rich source of information about domestic and social life in the era.

The Caroline Simpson Library holds many fascinating examples of 19th-century domestic advice manuals. Most of these were published in the United Kingdom, the United States and Australia. A number of the titles discussed are now rare; and in some cases are the only known copy in a public collection. These publications cover subjects such as household management, domestic service, decorating and etiquette, and offer great insight into social and material histories of the home.

19th Century Domestic Advice Manuals

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Illustration of two women dancing in large dresses at a ball

Eat, pray, decorate

Advice manuals – the self-help books of the 19th century – provide a rich source of information about domestic and social life in the era

Detail frontispiece Female Instructor

Guides for domestic economy

In the fields of domestic economy, readership comprised chiefly young married women. Manuals informed the ‘house-wife’ on a woman’s role within the domestic sphere

Detail, illustration from & 'Lord Chesterfield's advice to his son on men and manners,' 1823.

Guides for etiquette

Some of the smallest volumes in the collection are etiquette manuals. These pocket sized volumes cover topics from letter-writing to ballroom dancing and finding a suitable spouse

Detail of illustration from 'The drawing room : its decorations and furniture' by Mrs. Lucy Orrinsmith. London: Macmillan,1878

Guides for home furnishing

Advice on home decorating had traditionally been written by men for men

Frontispiece detail, 'The frugal housewife : dedicated to those who are not ashamed of economy' by Mrs. Child, 1860

Guides for masters and mistresses

Advice manuals in this category may on the surface appear paradoxical. The works provide ready reference on the varied duties of male and female domestic service roles

Table setting, 'Family entertainment of one course', from 'The servant's book of reference; or, butler's, housemaid's and footman's assistant' by J.R. Blonsell , c1840

Guides for servants

Guides for servants were written by authors from varied social classes, including ex-servants